How to forget someone you love so much?

Its not about deleting his pictures, its about deleting him from your mind

I strongly agree with deleting pictures because this helps the subconscious mind realize that the relationship is really over, however, you can’t delete the person's picture in the morning then keep thinking about him/her in the evening.
Thinking about someone you loved will only remind you of the good times you spent together, will let you recall the good feelings you had with him/her and will strengthen your desire to bring him/her back.

When people lose hope in getting something that they really wanted they usually become depressed, however in relationships it works the other way around, when you lose hope in getting someone you loved so much you start to recover.

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    Make a list of things you always wanted to do and never did: You've probably wanted to do a lot but never got around to it because the relationship was taking up so much of your time. Once you are done with the list, you will see how much life has to offer you.
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    Don't wallow in self-pity: Breaking up is tough even if it's you has left the other person. What's important is that you realize that life must go on. Start something new, even if it doesn't take off, you would at least be happier with the experience.
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    Meet up with old friends: Or make new friends. A good way to meet like minded people is to join a club related to your interests.
  4. 4
    Brainwash or use logic to beat the blues: If your ex-love was a pain, getting over it should be easier. Just focus on the negatives and be happy that you are out of a toxic relationship. If the person was really nice, then it's tougher, but then again, be happy that you had the opportunity to meet such a person. Remember that everyone comes into our lives for a reason, it's not the quantity, but the quality of the relationship that matters.
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    Bless him/her: Despite everything that's happened, bring yourself to truly forgive. If possible, go up to the person and tell him/her that you have been deeply hurt, but you forgive them for all they have done. This helps you to move on, and believe in humanity once more.
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    Don't stay home: You don't need money to walk down your street, look at the sky, enjoy a book or other simple pleasures that life has to offer us.
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    Forget yourself: Remember that there is always love to give and there is so much we can do to make our lives richer. Learn your lessons and embrace the light. Give yourself to a cause greater than yourself, and suddenly all your worries will disappear.
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    Keep the faith: It's easy to become bitter, but remember, that will not make you happier. Religion, music, animals, sports; any of these can bring back the warmth into your life.
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    Refrain from talking about your ex-love all the time: Your friends will soon disappear and you will find it harder.
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    Delete everything: phone numbers, chat logs. It might hurt you, but you won't read this logs or call him/her.
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    Get rid of all poems, music, films: when you are walking in your flat, you won't see things, that could recall about your love.
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    Remove all objects that remind you of him/her.

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