Inferiority may appear to be a persistent disorder but if you knew the right way to deal with it then it wont take you long before you become a confident person who knows that he is valuable and worthy with disregard to his social or financial position.
The following are the guidelines you should follow if you want to overcome inferiority complex.
- Don’t depend on external factors to feel worthy because as long as your self worth is tied to external factors you will feel worthless if you lost any of these factors. Such factors may be a loving partner, being famous or having lots of money.
- Know that you were born clean and that were you just programmed to feel inferior. No body is born inferior; people just learn how to become inferior. Yes a baby feels inferior as a result of being surrounded by more capable adults but as soon as it learns the needed life skills the feelings of inferiority disappears.
- Know that each human has strengths and weaknesses and unless you are aware of both you may become subject to programming by others
- Know that your feelings of inferiority are not your fault. Meeting a bully, someone who is sadistic or someone who is suffering from personal disorder who made you feel inferior doesn’t mean that you are really inferior. It just means that you met someone who was in real need of treatment yet no one helped him.
- know that compensation wont solve anything. you might strive for money, power and fame and after you get them all you will find yourself still feeling inferior
- know that all racists feel inferior and that they feel worthy by devaluing others instead of feeling good about themselves.
- Know that self confidence is a skill that can be learned. No one is born confident and there is no self confidence genes. You can become confident if you decided to.
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